sick of cliched endings! is my end all that PREDICTABLE?

..."she says..'i love you'...
'i love you too darling' comes the reply...
they hold hands...smile at each other...and walk in the sunset...happily ever after..." 

BUT THEN
she wakes up...the mornings breaks...and so does her dream...:P...wakey wakey sweetheart...time for a REALITY CHECK!:D
                          
do you really think ALL happily ever afterS lie in a guy??? uhh dont you find that a bit i dont knowww...ummm ..humdrum??


sue you DISNEY for making every girl believe that she has a dream prince waiting for her...!



i mean Come on...wasnt love supposed to be RARE?


and if happiness was found only in a LOVE life...where did money, youth,friendship,religion and experience go?



if happily ever afterS occurred only in sunsets and moonlights... wouldn't there be a desperate need for a traffic time police in order to please every love couple who want their blissful finale to take place in sunsets and moonlights? 


wasn't love supposed to be UNEXPECTED...EXCITING..ERRATIC .and blah blah blah blah blah! wouldnt it be very predictable if in the end we all were supposed to set off hand in hand with a guy!


lets take a shot at reality...!
did you know that there are about 50% heartbroken people in pakistan?
did you have any idea that About 50% of first marriages for men under age 45 end in
divorce, and between 44 and 52% of women's first marriages
end in divorce in united states?
i read a fact that states "the likelihood of a divorce
is lowest for men and women AFTER age 60, from whom 36 % of men
and 32 percent of women are already divorced from their first marriage ( HOW outrageously UNROMANTIC is that?) 
  
so lemme again invite you to reality...! and (with a serious sappy tone in my voice) lemme make it clear...
...its not necessary that if we end up dumped,heartbroken and abandoned...we have a happily NEVER after ahead of us...it just means that our happily ever after lies in something other then relationships...maybe our happily ever after lies in just...moving on...or letting go...maybe it lies in...compromising..and arranged marriages...:)
life isn't all about love...its about a teaspoon of brains and a sprinkle of practicality too...:)...( BTW a teaspoon is alawt...imagine how bitter would your tea be without a TEASPOON of suger) :D

p.s: i didn't mean to burst every committed persons bubble by writing this article...i just wanted to let it out..that  life has different in store for each of us...!;) and trust me its has the best:)



Comments

  1. Voice Of Reason7 August 2011 at 18:18

    I agree with the most part of this post. It's true that people only seek happiness outside of themselves and their lives when they are unhappy with what they have. They carry on this attitude into their relationships and this obviously wrecks things for them. Everyone CAN have a happily-ever-after. But it only comes with a lot of compassion and understanding for your partner and never giving up on the relationship. Yes, some relationships are seriously very wrong for both the people involved and that is when they need to part ways to be happy. And at the end of the day you can only control so much, the rest is up to God. Life's simpler that way. :)

    Excellent post! Your thoughts reflect mine quite a lot. Keep on posting kick-butt stuff. <3

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  2. Ovais8 August 2011 at 03:37

    You look for the positive in the negative with the "your tears don't necessarily have to be sad ones."

    Lol.

    Your post, though.. why do so many people end up divorced in their first marriage? Is it because we humans are in general becoming more demanding and aggressive-the divorce rate was never this high twenty/thirty years ago.

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  3. ateeq mughal8 August 2011 at 04:01

    if i were a girl (disney fan) i would have said
    ΓΌ just broke my heart :P
    but as i am a guy,(reality)
    i would say,
    thumbs up...

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  4. Ridx 8 August 2011 at 08:52

    were u blogging n reading my mind at the same time? ;)

    i mean seriously. AWESOME :)

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  5. ..the floodgate of feelings..:]8 August 2011 at 09:45

    @aaishah...yeah true:)...thats what i meant too...:) relationships are rare...and if everybody starts getting involved in them jst for the heck ov it...then they loose importnce:)
    @ovais...yeah thts my motive...:D em an optimst:) the divorce rate is of united state btw...and thats because ppl fall in love in haste..marry in haste...and then breakup wen they finally recover from their blindness;)...marriage is no childs play:)
    @ ateeq and ridx...:))) thnx <3 :)
    @hamza...:D:P

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  6. Aliza8 August 2011 at 09:53

    girl,its awesome! <3 P.S: this is precisely what my next blog is about-IF I ever post it :P I wrote about the same cliched happily-ever-after endings :P

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  7. Anonymous8 August 2011 at 09:54

    <3!!! finaleee! someone has a "teaspoon of brains" ;) great work!

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  8. ..the floodgate of feelings..:]9 August 2011 at 03:53

    :D:)...@aliza...thanx:)..!

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  9. He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named10 August 2011 at 11:35

    Nice one! ;) :D....Fynally a girl who understnds lyf :P :)...
    Keep it up! =)

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  10. Tweeny Me17 August 2011 at 06:14

    <3 Wonderful blog =D !!!!

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  11. Mohammed Saqlain18 August 2011 at 08:49

    KUDOS =)
    Feel free to drop by my blog !
    I am new to blogging :)
    Great Post :)

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  12. Imad Khalid20 August 2011 at 14:20

    Well well...Firstly i am very much Glad that you actually know that the problem doesnt lie in LOVE it lies in those who Love :)

    If you are not good at something or you dont know the rules of something you dont have to try it :)

    Sorry for using word "TRY" for love. Because this is actually what we are doing :D ..First call, first sms and here you go they love even they dont know their full names sai tarhan :/ haha.

    Its the TIME now a days where we start to Like quickly and Name this Like as Love. The problem starts rite from here. Now you have no strong basis so the end would be a divorce and what else you expect.

    Love ka number must come after you have a perfect friend wala relation :)

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